If you notice that your boyfriend gets very defensive and angry when you approach him about cheating does that mean he is cheating on you?
So you approached your boyfriend and questioned him whether he is cheating on you – he flares up immediately and tries to defend himself or the other woman against your accusation. Is this a sign that he is cheating on you?
The answer is most probably a NO. The reason why he is upset is because a he wants to be trusted and not thought of as a dog or womanizer. By this trust, he feels secure as he has your support and encouragement. This is important especially when men are constantly thought of as cheaters. If he has been faithful to you, he would try his best to show and proof to you that he is not what you think.
Therefore, be subtle and more sensitive before you start to accuse him of betrayal especially when he has not, would anger any man and trigger his defensive stance.
But on the other hand, is he cheating on you? If your boyfriend is really seeing another woman behind your back or cheating on you and you accuse him of it, he might react differently from a man who doesnt cheat. He will constantly reassure you, and not get defensive. This is because he does not want to bring unnecessary attention to get caught in the act.
