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My Ex Wants Me Back – Here’s Some Positive Signs

Wednesday, November 4th, 2009

The end of a relationship leaves a lot of mess. It’s rarely clean, crisp and straightforward and it leaves both partners with a lot of conflicting feelings. You may well be wishing you could try again. And it’s just as likely that your ex feels the same.  So if you’ve been looking for signs in what he says, what he does, who he’s with or where he goes, you might be starting to believe that he wants the same as you. But you don’t want to invite the pain of being rebuffed. So you need to be sure if your ex he wants you back.  And some of the clearest and easiest signs to read are how hard and how often he tries to get in touch with you after your breakup.

Think about how he’s approaching you.  Is he seeking you out and is he doing so more often than you might have expected in the aftermath of a breakup?  Is asking you things that lead you to believe he’s genuinely interested in how you are and what you’re doing?  Is he responding warmly to your news?  If the answers are yes then he may well be starting to realize that losing you has left a gap in his life. For many people, a breakup is one of the best ways of crystallizing feelings and bringing them to a full recognition of their feelings. This could be happening to him.

But tread carefully.  Don’t necessarily PLAY HARD TO GET but equally don’t jump to the conclusion that he’s just waiting for you to run into his arms.  It’s a process that takes a little time and if you act too soon he may not be ready and you’ll have missed your chance.  If he clearly still has feelings for you they’re unlikely to go away.  He just needs the time to recognize them fully.  So patience is the key.

Emotional Scale: How to Determine If Your Ex Wants You Back

Friday, July 3rd, 2009

If you want your ex back, it can be hard to know if the relationship even worth going after. After all, you’ve been dumped; your ex doesn’t want you back, right? Not always so. Your ex may want you; they may just need some time to figure this out on their own. Yet, how are you to know if there are any feelings left for you?

Actually, it’s pretty easy to figure out if your ex still has feelings for you. It doesn’t take a science degree to figure it out. All it takes is some knowledge about the emotional scale. Emotional scale? What’s this? It’s what lets people know how a person feels about them based on the different ranges. Love being on one side of the scale and hate on the opposite end. When you look at the scale, you can make these two emotions like this: intense (love)/ indifference (hate).

When a person has no real feelings for another person, they fall on the indifference side of the scale. However, when a person has strong feelings for someone, they fall to the inside side of the scale. How do you discern where you fall on this love/hate measurement? Start by watching how your ex acts toward you. Does it seem like you can talk as you did before or does the reception seem chilly?

Look at it like this: When you call your ex, does it seem like they never answer or are in a hurry to get off the phone with you? Does it seem like you are always the one calling? If so, then it’s probable that you are on the indifference side of the scale. You may have little chance to win your ex back when you are on this side.

However, if your ex calls you or doesn’t mind you contacting them, you still have a winning shot to get them back. It means they do still care about you and how you are doing. It may take some doing and you will definitely need a plan, but you can win your ex back. All you need to do is to stay off the indifference side of the scale.

The One Question You Need to Ask Yourself before Wanting Your Ex Back

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

When you have been through a breakup, it’s quite common to feel alone and sad. You may feel like life isn’t worth living without your ex in your life. You may think that life is better with them in it. However, you need to ask yourself an all-important question: do you really want them back or is it pain and loneliness setting in to makes you feel the way you feel?

Being dumped can be very painful. You don’t know how to feel or act when you are suddenly on your own. Facing the big, bad world on your own may seem so scary to do that you’re likely want to seek out the one person who kept you safe. However, you have to make sure that it’s really worth going back for. After all, you don’t want to be in a relationship just because you are scared to be alone and don’t think you can make it on your own.

Does this need to not be alone meant you don’t love your ex? Not at all. It just basically means that while you need and love your ex, your ex may not feel the same way as you. You may find what you want in stability with someone other than your ex that could actually be much better than your ex too. You may not realize it but everybody is afraid of being alone and staying that way his or her entire life. When this happens, they’ll reach out to the one thing that made them feel completely safe even if it’s not the thing their heart really wants.

Not everyone is the same. While you may truly love your ex and want them back, other people just want the security the relationship has. If you believe you really love your ex, then it’s time to find a way to bring you two back together. However, determine for sure that you want your ex back before you do. You may end up causing them and yourself undue pain by not figuring this out first.

Emotional Scale: How to Determine If Your Ex Wants You Back

Monday, June 22nd, 2009

If you want your ex back, it can be hard to know if the relationship even worth going after. After all, you’ve been dumped; your ex doesn’t want you back, right? Not always so. Your ex may want you; they may just need some time to figure this out on their own. Yet, how are you to know if there are any feelings left for you?

Actually, it’s pretty easy to figure out if your ex still has feelings for you. It doesn’t take a science degree to figure it out. All it takes is some knowledge about the emotional scale. Emotional scale? What’s this? It’s what lets people know how a person feels about them based on the different ranges. Love being on one side of the scale and hate on the opposite end. When you look at the scale, you can make these two emotions like this: intense (love)/ indifference (hate).

When a person has no real feelings for another person, they fall on the indifference side of the scale. However, when a person has strong feelings for someone, they fall to the inside side of the scale. How do you discern where you fall on this love/hate measurement? Start by watching how your ex acts toward you. Does it seem like you can talk as you did before or does the reception seem chilly?

Look at it like this: When you call your ex, does it seem like they never answer or are in a hurry to get off the phone with you? Does it seem like you are always the one calling? If so, then it’s probable that you are on the indifference side of the scale. You may have little chance to win your ex back when you are on this side.

However, if your ex calls you or doesn’t mind you contacting them, you still have a winning shot to get them back. It means they do still care about you and how you are doing. It may take some doing and you will definitely need a plan, but you can win your ex back. All you need to do is to stay off the indifference side of the scale.

7 Tell-tale Signs to Know For Sure If Your Ex Wants You Back

Sunday, April 19th, 2009

Do you desire to have your ex back in your arms? If so, then you have already crossed a great hurdle: admitting you want your ex back. It can be difficult to deal with the aftermath of a breakup especially if there are feelings of love still there.

You may want your ex back but you also want to make sure you have a chance to win them back. The fact is you aren’t the only one out there thinking how to know for sure.

Studies have been done and there is actually 7 good ways to find out if your ex wants to give you another chance as well.

Signs (1) – Body Language

A person’s body language speaks volumes without them ever having to utter a single word. The signal your body sends out tells others your true feelings. People may be unaware of this fact as well. If you can keep in touch with your body and master those feelings, than you’ll know how they feel about you.

Look at the direction he or she is facing. Does it seem like any part of their body is facing yours? If you can’t see for sure, look a little closer. What about their thumb, their elbow… anything that can be construed to be in your direction means he or she may be thinking of you. They may be keeping an eye on you without you even knowing.

However, if you aren’t for sure through this signs, look at the face. Unfortunately, faces cannot hide what people feel inside. Often times when a person is interested in someone, they light up when they are around. Their demeanor may change to jubilant. People may try to act subtle but often times, it fails. If you want ex back, look for a sign like this.

Signs (2) – Eye Contact

Did you ever think holding a person’s eye contact could tell you how much in love they are with you? If you can hold a person’s eye contact for about 75% of a conversation, you and the other person are in love. If you need more clues when making eye contact, let the pupils do the talking for you. A dilated pupil means the person is attracted to you.

Signs (3) – Copycat

Have you gone to a party and there is your ex, hanging out in the corner? Be sure to watch them as you move about. Are they mimicking your steps and actions? If so, then chances are they still want you back. Copying your movements is a sign that he or she is thinking of you.

Signs (4) – What’s Said

Watch for the things they say about you. If they are always adding you in a sentence, it means you’ve been on their mind. When an ex still wants you back, they often, without even realizing it themselves, will want your approval. If you need to, listen for any emotions in their voice while they speak with you. When your moods match while talking, there are still feelings there.

Signs (5) – Appearance Improvement

People always want to look their best but when they are aiming to get their ex back they try really hard to improve their appearance and stance. Remember they want to send the signal out that they want you and want you to pay attention to them. They may start to lose a little weight, exercise more often or keep adjusting their clothes in front of you. These are usually less caught signs but signs nonetheless.

Signs (6) – Stay Awhile

Does it seem like they are always around more often than not even though you are broken up? Does it seem like they call and want to talk all the time? If so, then it’s a sign that they still want to be with you.

Signs (7) – Drop a Line

Do they always send you messages in any form?  It doesn’t have to be every day but as long as there is contact, you’re doing well. You don’t have to take a no contact sign as a bad one either. You may not realize it but you still have a good shot of getting your ex back.

Signs Your Ex Wants You Back: Ways to Find Out

Sunday, April 12th, 2009

Have you been dumped but you are not over it yet and want to know if they want you back? Are you looking for signs pointing to this very thing? Any one of these situations could be a sign to them wanting you back. There are ways to find out.

-  Have you noticed if your ex is trying to keep in touch with you?

-  Are they doing things that would normally make you jealous?

-  Does it seem like they are upset with the way things turned out? Or is it just the other way around?

-  Does it seem like they are ignoring you or are overly happy about being out of the relationship?

-  Do you hear friends whispering about the situation? Are they trying to find out information for you but finally it’s all the more confusing.

-  Have you heard how your ex really feels about you and he/she actually detests you. In fact, each time your name is mentioned, a curse word follows.

Would you be surprised to learn that these are signs pointing to him/her want wanting you back?

Have you been contacted by your ex? If so, it’s a sign that they could want to make up with you. However, when signals are confusing, it can leave you feeling crazy as you try to find out what they are thinking. If you are trying to figure out what is going on their end, then there is actually just one thing you need to see to know if you still have an opportunity to get back with your ex.

Look to see if your ex reacts with emotion to the mere mention of your name and/or your actions.

Is there a thin line between hate and love? Yes. However, those feelings of jealousy, hate and disrespect still point toward that emotional correlation that is there linking your ex and yourself. Yes, there is still hope for the two of you.

You also need to know where to draw the line in wanting them back. Sometimes time does not heal all wounds. If you see this happen, it’s time to move on. However, if you see the sign that they still want you back by a sparks of emotion that passes their eyes, then try putting some strategies in place to give both of you another chance.

How to Determine If Your Ex Still Loves You

Wednesday, April 1st, 2009

Some feelings just don’t go away and you know you’re still in love with your ex, but how do you know if he still loves you?  Determining his feelings for you could be complicated because he may be confused about how he really feels. However, you can learn how he sees you by following the following technique:

A Bit on the Emotional scale

There exists a line with varying degrees of relationship status between exes. You have one and so does your ex. One side shows apathy, the other shows the extreme feelings of hate and love. Imagine your ex’s line and all the people he dated and how he felt about them. Where do you stand on that line?

How to Determine Your Position on His Line

If it’s been a couple weeks after you hear from your ex and he hasn’t tried to contact you, it’s pretty obvious that you are under the indifferent side of the scale. What about when he’s called or has text you just to see how you’re doing or if you’re busy some night.  Those kinds of questions can determine where you stand versus his other exes.

He may have told you he just wanted to be friends and he’ll still call you to invite you to a party or just to hang out but how does he act when you’re together in those situations?  Does he punch you in the arm like a good ole buddy and convince you to have a belching contest? Or does he treat you how he did when you first started dating: with respect and tender touches that show he still cares? Pay attention to these scenarios and you may just be able to tell he still loves you.

How to Get Him Back

So you’ve determined he still loves you and you know you want to get back with him. Yet, he may still be uncertain. You can take that step forward and make the first move. Break down the wall that’s holding you back and let him know where you stand… that you want to get together for a drink sometime and perhaps talk about where he might stand.

Win Her Back: Ex-Girlfriend Still Has Feelings for You

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

When your ex-girlfriend dumps you, it can be very damaging and chances are you are trying to work past the problems that come associated with the breakup and move forward with your life. However, you have this nagging feeling that you just can’t move on without her in your life. Everything in you wants to fight to win her back. Yet, you have no idea ‘if she still has feelings for me’ you asked. How can you tell if your ex-girlfriend still has feelings for you?

Yes, there is a way to tell if your ex-girlfriend still likes you. It doesn’t take a rocket science or love machine to find out. All it takes is you looking at some fairly simple clues based on certain things she does or does not do.

First, ask yourself this question: Are you going to speak to someone you don’t like? If your answer is no, chances are she is the same way. After all, why talk with someone who you have nothing in common with or cannot stand to be around. How each person deals with the person they don’t like vary, the same standard pretty much applies. You are not likely to spend a lot of time talking to that person.

If you want your ex-girlfriend back, you want to know if she still wants to talk to you or if she doesn’t want to talk to you. After all, if she does talk to you, there is hope, isn’t there? Yes, there is.

Yet, how are you to know if you can win her back? Start looking at the way she treats you. This is especially important when it comes to communication. If there is some resistance on her part to speak to you when you call or she doesn’t call you back when you ask her to, then she isn’t really up for another relationship with you. Don’t consider that a loss; instead consider it a challenge to overcome. However, if she answers your calls or decides to call you first, you have a winning chance of getting your ex-girlfriend back.

Win Back Your Ex: Is Your Ex Calling You?

Saturday, March 21st, 2009

Did you know that even though you have been dumped, you had a chance to win back your ex? The truth is many breakups happen even though the person doing the breakup still loved their significant other. How can you tell if your ex still loves you but they are unsure themselves? Actually, it all boils down to one simple thing: how they act towards you.

When a person breaks up with someone, they generally don’t want anything to do with that person especially if there are no more feelings or hard feelings there. However, if an ex is willing to stay in touch with you, it basically means that they want you in their lives in some kind of way. The easiest way to discover if your ex really wants you still is by observing the way he calls or handles your phone calls.

Your Ex Returns Your Call Or Calls First

Keep in mind that many people don’t talk or initiate conversations with people they don’t like. So does it seem like your ex makes the first move to call you or is happy to hear from you when you call? If so there are chances they haven’t fully accepted the breakup either. It means your ex still cares about you. If he or she is the one calling you first, then take it as a good sign that your ex still wants you too. He/She doesn’t have to pine for you but if they are still attempting to converse with you then it means that feelings you thought weren’t there actually are.

The thing to remember is that emotions can cause confusion. You are probably just as confused about your ex as he/she is about you. This is normal. If you want your ex back, all you need to know is if they still have feelings for you. Only then can you attempt to win them back over.

Emotional Scale: How to Determine If Your Ex Wants You Back

Thursday, March 5th, 2009

If you want your ex back, it can be hard to know if the relationship even worth going after. After all, you’ve been dumped; your ex doesn’t want you back, right? Not always so. Your ex may want you; they may just need some time to figure this out on their own. Yet, how are you to know if there are any feelings left for you?

Actually, it’s pretty easy to figure out if your ex still has feelings for you. It doesn’t take a science degree to figure it out. All it takes is some knowledge about the emotional scale. Emotional scale? What’s this? It’s what lets people know how a person feels about them based on the different ranges. Love being on one side of the scale and hate on the opposite end. When you look at the scale, you can make these two emotions like this: intense (love)/ indifference (hate).

When a person has no real feelings for another person, they fall on the indifference side of the scale. However, when a person has strong feelings for someone, they fall to the inside side of the scale. How do you discern where you fall on this love/hate measurement? Start by watching how your ex acts toward you. Does it seem like you can talk as you did before or does the reception seem chilly?

Look at it like this: When you call your ex, does it seem like they never answer or are in a hurry to get off the phone with you? Does it seem like you are always the one calling? If so, then it’s probable that you are on the indifference side of the scale. You may have little chance to win your ex back when you are on this side.

However, if your ex calls you or doesn’t mind you contacting them, you still have a winning shot to get them back. It means they do still care about you and how you are doing. It may take some doing and you will definitely need a plan, but you can win your ex back. All you need to do is to stay off the indifference side of the scale.