Have you wondered how you could get back with your ex girlfriend? It’s probably the first thing going through your mind. If you want to get back with your girl, it’s imperative that you realize that the whole breakup mess can become even messier if not handled correctly. Feelings on both sides are hurting so it’s important you don’t further hurt either one of your feelings as you try to get back with her.

There are five things you should consider as you contemplate how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

Making up Consideration No 1) – What was the reason or reasons behind the breakup? Did you do something you weren’t supposed to? You have to understand that women don’t just breakup with their man unexpectedly. You probably aren’t even aware that you were doing something wrong. Above all else, figure out what the problem was, determine if there was something you could have done and then figure out how you can fix it, if you can.

Making up Consideration No 2) – If you realize that the breakup occurred because you did something, you have to get your ex girlfriend to understand that you realize that the fault lied with you and that you apologize for the mistake that was made and for your actions. Never just say you are sorry with words alone but show your sincerity in order to get back together with her.

Making up Consideration No 3) – Even if your goal is to get back with your ex girlfriend, be sure you still get out. You don’t have to be a hermit, locked away in your house. Get out of the house and meet your friends. Get together with them and just hang out. If she sees you having a good time rather than spending your time pining for her, it’s possible you could spark a little jealousy out of her.

Making up Consideration No 4) – Even though you still want your ex back, you have to move on too. Don’t forget to show her how much you still care about her. You don’t want her to believe that you have moved on completely so let her know that you still care about her but need some time as well to deal with things. Women look at this as a sign of maturity.

Making up Consideration No 5) – It’s vital that you become friends with your ex. This friendship can lead to trust. This trust can lead to something more. After all, isn’t that what you want?

As time passes, ask her the reason for the breakup. Don’t appear needy or desperate. Just ask her nonchalantly. She’ll do one of two things: admit that she made a mistake by dumping you or let you know that breaking up was best for the both of you. After you know the answer, you can decide whether or not you still want to get back with your ex girlfriend and give both of you another chance.